When you click that link, you will be taken to a manifesto that will help you discover your weaknesses, and instead of trying to help rid you of them, will help you to embrace them.
Essentially, the entire article describes 9 ways to harness your weaknesses, your disabilities and your addictions. Your “freak factor”. Not only to harness them, but to make them into strengths, and help you become a more successful individual.
Of these 9 ways, I have found three different pieces of advice that I think are actually very helpful, and meaningful to me.
#3: Flawless: There’s Nothing Wrong With You
Here, author David Rendall makes the claim that “each of us has unique characteristics. These characteristics have both positive and negative features.” He says that the strengths and weaknesses cannot be separated, they come only in pairs. He also makes a chart showcasing some of the most common.
Some of my “Strength and Weakness” pairs are here:
Creative/Unorganized, Dedicated/Stubborn, Reflective/Shy, and Passionate/Impatient
He goes on to describe the idea of messiness being a weakness, and why this shouldn’t be so. Many of the greatest minds of our century have been messy. Alexander Fleming, for example, found the cure for penicillin in his mess of a lab after returning from vacation. Albert Enstein has said “If a cluttered desk is a sign of a cluttered mind, what is an empty desk a sign of?”
This makes me feel so much better about myself.
#5: Foundation: Build on your Strengths
In #4, Rendall says that you should not try to fix your weaknesses. That it is a painful and slow process that is actually more of a hindrance to us than a benefit. But in this section, he does say that we should work on building our strengths. He makes the claim that if you don’t use it, you lose it, so we should never think that our strengths will always be there.
He also says three things:
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1)It feels good. It is enjoyable and energizing to work on your strengths.
2)You have the greatest potential in your areas of strength. These are your natural gifts and provide you with your best chances for success.
3)Your strengths make up for your weaknesses. Well-developed strenths often make your weaknesses irrelevant.
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This is refreshing and a relief to hear. I love the idea that our strengths make up for our weaknesses.
#8: Freak: The Power of Uniqueness
In this section, Rendall describes how the Leaning Tower of Pisa was built. How they made every attempt to stop the tower from leaning, and for years afterwards, would even try to correct the “problem”. However, people, including this blogger and her family, have flocked by the millions to see this tower lean. (And strangely, all of the buildings in the same plaza seem to lean as well...)
It is the thing that made it’s builders view it as a mistake that has made it such an impossibly huge tourist attraction today.
In some ways I am reminded of Lady Gaga. Seriously, what a freak. But in all honesty, look at her. There can be only one Lady Gaga. No matter what she does now, now matter how crazy she gets or how many steaks she decides to wear to the Grammy’s, she will always be a unique and totally irreplaceable individual. It’s why she has such an incredibly strong following. She prides herself on being a freak, and that is what has made her famous. Although I don’t want to be Lady Gaga necessarily, I do want to be the only Maddie you’ll ever know.
